Why am i attracted to a married man


I'm In Love With A Married Man: Mental Health Implications

Can a married man fall in love?

Yes, a married person of any gender can fall in treasure with someone else. Human emotions are complicated, and it’s feasible for someone to develop intense romantic feelings for another person despite their existing commitment to their spouse.

Falling in love with another person could be stimulated by unmet needs or a desire to feel special and valued in a way they do not seem to experience at home. Perhaps the most important thing to consider is how the married guy (or person) handles their emotions. Execute they express them openly or keep them concealed from their spouse or affair partner?

Can you love someone who is married?

Yes, much like a married person can fall in love with another individual, an individual can fall in love with a married person. This dynamic is often emotionally challenging and often fraught with guilt and even self-loathing.

If you are in this situation, it is important to take a concerted look at your own feelings and examine your motivations and whether pursuing

A guest post by Dr. Valerie Golden

Mate poaching is a robust phenomenon, and it's here to stay. When many single women see a moderately attractive male, they are more interested in him if they believe he is already in a relationship. In fact, one study in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology found 90 percent of single women were interested in a man who they believed was taken, while a mere 59 percent wanted him when told he was single.

Take Lisa, a young, attractive, smart, adj woman from a major metropolitan area. She professed to crave marriage and kids, desperately. So why did she waste precious time with Adam, a married father of two who never had any real intention of leaving his wife? And when they first met, was she really scanning the room for tall, dark, and handsome, or was she actually looking for married with romance sans responsibility?

Is it because a man who is already taken is more experienced? Is he seen as able to commit? Is he more desirable because another female has pre-screened him (while single men are unknown commodities)? For some, the

What if I&#;m attracted to a married man?

Question

I am a Christian woman who is madly attracted to my co-worker who is also a Christian. The thing is, he is married! All my life I disdained adultery, and here I am in a terrible situation.

At first, our dealings were professional; then it got personal. He helped me get through a bad relationship. After a while, my feelings for him changed. I grew attracted to him. A sister-brotherly relationship turned to flirting, and now he has confessed that he has a crush on me. Needless to say, that was a very awkward moment. I feel guilty because I want him even more. I asked God for forgiveness, but I can&#;t stop thinking about him. Help!

Answer

Dear reader, I&#;m so glad you wrote. This is a frightful situation you&#;re in, but I&#;m not surprised by it. We are designed for sexual intimacy — it is our nature to desire it. But it is also our nature — our sin nature inherited from Adam (Romans ) — that makes us lengthy for illegitimate sexual intimacy. And that is what you verb. Your temptation is less surprising than you might imagine,

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