Hot gay seniors
Hello Andreus,
As my subject line says I am old and have been alone most of my entire adult life. I have had a few relationships that have never lasted. As a year-old, I don’t really enjoy going out to bars (most guys see me as a troll). Ones that are looking for someone like me just want to jump, pump, and dump, and I’m not looking for that. I also don&#;t have a clique of friends (most of my shut friends have moved away), and because I am an introvert and enjoy being alone but would like to find someone that would just like to spend time together, movies, dinner, walks on the beach. I find it easier just to do things on my possess. I&#;ve joined clubs, but most are populated by younger guys not interested, or married couples. Should I seek professional support here? Or can you advise some other means of trying to find another person without going to endless bars and feeling like I should contain just stayed home. Open to any suggestions.
Sincerely,
Chase
Dear Chase,
Unfortunately, in the arena of dating and such, it is necessary to place yourself out there in
Iwouldhave started writing this piece earlier, but the tendonitis in my right foot sent me to the doctor scrambling for relief. Last Christmas a trainer at my gym (whose father is younger than I am) asked what my goals were and I said “to lose five pounds by my birthday, in April.” I achieved the noun in part because I destroyed my shoulder right after our session and couldn’t work out — much of the weight was muscle mass. I can’t jog or jump rope or do planks without a team of advisers on the scene.
“My body, that instrument that, once upon a time, introduced itself before I did, is falling apart. It’s a thing, decay. Happens to anyone whose name is not Cher.”
My body, that instrument that, once upon a time, introduced itself before I did, is falling apart. Slowly, yes, but it’s happening. It’s a thing, decay. Happens to anyone whose name is not Cher.
I’ve heard a lot lately from men older than my 53 years, gently chiding me for writing about a sexy life in the sixth decade. Most of the comments have had the tone of “Just wait,” and, while I’ve not addressed them ind
PSY - Psychology of Aging - Summer - Textbook
The Facts of Life in Aging Gay Men
Older gay men have the alike desire for physical and passionate intimacy as do younger ones. As they age, however, they may be able to step off what one writer described as “the unconscious, relentless, mechanical treadmill of desire.”
They’re still active sexually. The pattern of sexual activity a man had in his youth tends to persist as he ages. In several surveys, as many as three quarters of gay men announce being happy with their sexual life. In some studies over half of these men reported having sex at least once a week with a partner and this is in addition to the masturbating that most men also do.
They know more about what turns them on and are less self-conscious about asking for it. Having more free time, less stressful serve lives, and more self-acceptance contribute to an enhanced sense of sexual possibilities.
The highly valued sexual experience tends to shift from the drive directly to orgasm to a fuller erotic life. Affection, cuddling and emotional closeness are
The Caftan Chronicles
Hi there Caftaners, I hope this finds you well as Thanksgiving weekend winds down. I'm taking some of this stretch of free occasion to write up this interview I did a few days ago with my longtime ally Alex Snell, a Gen Xer like me, about his transition from corporate America to social work school to becoming a professional care manager for senior gay men, which I consider is a really cool thing that I wouldn't mind exploring myself.
It makes sense, doesn't it? Senior gay folks often don't have children and/or a partner (particularly a significantly younger partner) of their own to care for them, and often don't like to be cared for by a straight person after a lifetime of moving in gay circles. And they often don't want to travel into a longterm care facility that might not be very gay-savvy or gay-friendly. At the same time, younger/middle-age gay men are often looking for some kind of career, or career change, that feels more meaningful and connected than sitting in front of a laptop all day (See: me! lol).
To place some need-to-know info at the top of thi